Before you even insinuate it, the answer is yes, it was a planned baby. I’m 32 weeks, blah blah blah.
Not what I’m here for.
Today I am exceptionally angry with a few “family” members, who think that it’s okay to have an opinion on things that they just don’t have a right to have an opinion on.
For many who don’t know, I am the youngest of 5, with a 14 year gap between me and the other youngest. All from the same parents, incase you were wondering. I’ve always been resented by my other siblings, and labelled as being “spoilt” and “a brat”, which has always been the most infuriating thing for me, because they all know that Mum and Dad did everything they could for them, and considering none of my brothers and sister were living at home when I was growing up, they tried to make up for that by buying me things because they felt bad for practically raising me as an only child.
Because they are so much older than me, they think that it’s okay to tell me and my partner how to live our lives, and to make a very public opinion on it, and think they’ll never get caught out, and that because they’ve lived such fantastically awesome lives, they know best.
Well, here’s what I think about it, fuck you.
Just because you are so much older, doesn’t make it okay to say things that are hurtful, and rude. And it certainly doesn’t make it okay to claim to have not said things and then when you’ve been caught out, use the excuse ‘Oh, well she’s a spoilt brat!’. That’s not an excuse for bad behaviour, that’s just making you look like a spoilt brat, and quite frankly, like a teenager. So do carry on carrying on about my INFERIOR life because in the long run, it’s you that looks like a fool, not me.
And since the comments they were made at the particular event, I suppose it would be a good time to mention the fact that I was drinking because well, I FUCKING HATE DRINKING.